A Christmas Wish

It's the time of year to reflect on our lives in the past year – for what we did, for what we didn't do or what we could have done.  For many of us, this is the time when we celebrate the birth of Christ.  In Mexico, and in particular in Villa de Garcia, N.L. in the 1950s, I remember we used to pray the rosaries in the advent novena, traditionally called "Posadas."   The "Posadas" were an interesting invention in the mid-16th century, They were not only a way to pray the rosary in the advent novena, but to do it in private homes, usually in the homes of people who were well-off economically.  Each chosen house sponsored a "party" after the rosary.  Although the party was for all the participants of the Posada, it was also a way to direct the benefit and small gifts to families and children with fewer economic resources. 

 

Now days, many of us only pretend to celebrate the birth of Christ and have transformed the "Posada" from a rosary into just the a party with delicious food (often with tamales), drinks, music and dancing.  Most of us simply follow the Posadas not only for the feasting, but also because they allow us to be closer to family and friends, and because it is a way to allows us to feel closer to our social group.  The have been part of a social evolution where we have been accepting the secular version of the Posada and the original reason is disappearing.

 

But ignoring the fact that the religious aspects may be no longer a part of the Posadas, it is great to see the wonder in the eyes of the little ones in these gatherings.  It's also very interesting to hear the goals, desires and achievements of young adults;  to talk about the struggles, pride, and challenges of adult family members.  And, as a bonus, also listen to the complaints of adult family members of their aging bodies.  Part of the benefit is that we can watch them compete and try to outdo each other over who's body part hurts the most.  It's part of our annual ritual and we love it.

 

This time of the year is a time of joy, a time of peace and a time to spread good feelings.  That's why I hope this season finds you in good health, in the company of your loved ones and in harmony with nature.   With a humble heart, I wish you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy, Safe and Happy New Year.

  

Scenes from a posada in 2022

 

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